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This is not a sob story…this is a story of resilience
This story isn’t pretty reading and believe me it’s been less pretty to live through.
Our journey starts on another swinging site where I was happily making friends and meeting great people for almost a year. Around 12 months ago, my troubles started.
Threatening and abusive messages to me from immediately deleted accounts then libellous accusations to others about me being a drug addict, prostitute and even a paedophile again from immediately deleted accounts.
I posted pics as I was an attention seeker? No, I posted pics as that is part of the platform. I posted on forums just to get to hot pics? No, I posted to the forums for good craic, banter and camaraderie. I was surprised and flattered to be top pic on a few occasions but that wasn’t why I was there.
This happened multiple times a day for almost the past year. To top it off they even posted my photos on Craiglist asking for information about me.
So far, so psycho right?
Very recently a message was received threatening gang rape before being dumped in a ditch.
Despite reporting this activity on scores of occasions, admin didn’t respond once. In fact when I pushed them as to why the radio silence to reports of criminal behaviour they suspended my account.
Guess what? I’ve gone through some really dark times in the last year but I’ve come out stronger. I’ve learned some difficult lessons but that’s how we grow.
This is why I’m here. A great friend recommended the site to me and I’ve been blown away by the accessibility of admin and mods as well as the positivity of members in general. The Cockwell Inn pub quiz completes me although I think a few of us know I can’t draw movies titles for toffee As well as this, the site has it spot on with face PV, no race to hot pics and clearly investing in good technology and taking our data rights into consideration.
There are very few members in my local region but keep up the good work admin and staff. Build it and they will come!
Each and every one of us has the power to help admin to grow the site by recommending good people you know to join the safer swinging site. I will continue to refer friends here…please do the same.